There is also an attitude, it is necessary to use cordiality and sincerity, not to use the method of forced confession, not to use a suspicious and hostile attitude, if you use suspicion, hostility, use the method of coercing confession, using the method of confession, then people must be very painful, and people will definitely give you a very ugly reaction. So there is a term in Buddhism called love language, love language is not the love that tells us to fall in love, but the kind face, after people listen to it, they feel that you are very compassionate to him, you care about him, you respect him, and you can help him, help him; Although he doesn't feel that you are assisting him and helping him, at least he feels that you respect him very much, and you treat him as if he is a teacher, like his own bosom friend to ask him for advice, so when you talk to him, he will be happy to accept you, and at the same time, he is also very willing to tell you what he knows, then the communication between them can be unimpeded. （ ...）

Question: Nowadays, this society can be said to be more and more diverse, and at the same time, more and more emphasis is placed on freedom of speech, so whether in the East or the West, some people will make some inappropriate remarks, some involve personal attacks, and some violate the good customs of society. So as a modern person, how can you express your speech appropriately, so that you can express your own meaning without harming others? Venerable Sheng Yan taught: This is not a question that modern people need,.. This problem is not needed by modern people, not by modern talents, but also by people in ancient times and by people in the future. The same thing, good at expressing, makes people happy to listen to it, and is not good at expressing it, makes people angry when they hear it; So Buddhist calendar inquiry

This problem is not needed by modern people, not by modern talents, but also by people in ancient times and by people in the future. The same thing, good at expressing, makes people happy to listen to it, and is not good at expressing it, makes people angry when they hear it; So How can a student of Buddhism remain kind and not suffer losses?

This problem is not needed by modern people, not by modern talents, but also by people in ancient times and by people in the future. The same thing, good at expressing, makes people happy to listen to it, and is not good at expressing it, makes people angry when they hear it; So Hangzhou West Lake Jingci Temple Yongming Monastery Outline and Charter

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